Why does she not want oral sex?
Married for 20 plus years. My wife and I have enjoyed a fairly normal sex life. Both enjoyed oral sex, at least I thought. About a year ago she got an infection, (I think a yeast infection) which I understand can be quite uncomfortable. Ever since then she will not let me perform oral sex on her. I enjoy giving her pleasure this way. I feel kind of like I screwed up and did something wrong. I've thought about suggesting a dental dam, but it seems like it would not be all that much fun. Our verbal communications regarding sex sucks. I think she feels its not worth the risk getting another infection. I feel frustrated. :confused: Any women out there who can help me out with suggestions.