I'm 17 nearly 18 and I've just started to have sex with my boyfriend. I love him so much but I have never had an orgasm. Like I get wet but don't really feel it, most the time its good.. how do I fake it?:confused: :confused: :confused: :confused:

Don't fake it hun,I've not had 1 for years and I'm 25 in September.just tell him he needs to work on you abit more it takes awoman a lot longer to get arroused than aman if you no how to make yourself orgasm then show him how you do it,if not find out yourself and then show him

Faking an orgasm will pretty much guarantee you NEVER have one.

Learn (by touching yourself) what works for you. Then show HIM.

Why not forget about the faking...

I would suggest you talk with him, ask if he is willing to learn newer hights together with you. There are things boys can learn to keep going longer, or better, and things girls can learn to find the right spots to lead a guy to, so suggest you study on better techniques together - communication, not faking is the key here. Libraries have some good literature with keen illustrations too.

Good luck.
And please remember - SAFETY is most important for both of you!

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She'll be to embaressed to go the library the net has everythin you need to no about everythin its just amatter of typin the rite words

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Originally Posted by jp1

she'll be to embaressed to go the library the net has everythin you need to no about everythin its just amatter of typin the rite words

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I beg to differ.

The net has a whole bunch of crap with a few gems in it.

You know... I hesitate to bring this up, but it could be a factor. You're 17. Part of the "turn-ons" for a female is ALL mental. In the back of your head, you're probably PRAYING not to get pregnant, even if you're enjoying the sex. It's hard to let loose when you're afraid that something that life-altering could happen.

I didn't have an orgasm with a partner until I was in my 20s. I was just too uptight about everything to just let go. When it didn't matter anymore if I got pregnant (because I was more stable and so was my relationship), guess what? Whammo! Orgasm!