Red flags in men and women?
There are certain things to stay clear of when trying to find that special someone out there. Would you stay away from a guy who is not saying much about his life or himself and you have not been invited to his home but he has come to mine after 3 months? Would you stay clear of a guy whom doesn't take you out but comes over for dinner,lunch,etc? Would you stay clear of a guy whose into all sorts of sex(group,swinging,men,shemales,porn,watching-not doing with you) and your not into it,but he's got everything else you want in a guy? Would you stay clear of a previous alcoholic(sober now) and a present alcoholic? Would you stay clear of a guy whom seems to work all the time? Would you stay clear of a man who wants sex with others and not just you, but others and you? Would a man whom spends a lot keep you away? Would certain jobs such as cop,fireman keep you away? Would you stay away from a guy who has been married 3-4 times? Would you stay clear of gamblers,druggies,etc? Just a few. I know it seems like a lot. But is there a man or woman that doesn't have these dangers? How do you always know these dangers? Would you try to find out about the person while dating or is that wrong?