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  • Mar 1, 2008, 10:52 AM
    Sarah001
    What is he thinking.
    Hi all,

    Just need another opinion..

    I have been with my partner for nearly 3 yrs, and we had a four month break last yr, during which time he decided he wamted to travel.
    We got back together 4 month later and it was better than it ever had been and we we're both saying how in love we were.
    He went away in dec and I went out and met him for a month, we started talking about engagement and we're so upset when he left me at the airport.
    When I got back, he was still very upset and was sending gifts home to me, but couldn't come back as he felt he had to get this out his system before we settle.
    Then one day we had a row and I over reacted and ended things with him, I said the distance was too much and I missed him and talking to him every day was making it worse etc.
    A day later I deeply regretted this and tried to contact him but he ignored my texts and calls.
    This was 1 mth ago and I have still not heard from him. I texted him and said how sorry I was and if he never wanted me back to just tell me and I'd leave him be but he never replied.
    I know I was wrong to end it, but I thought after some space he would come round. I have not attempted to contact him in 2 weeks and still I hear nothing.

    Is he just cutting me off so he can concentrate on his travels and finally get it out his system? Or have I pushed him too far and now he is finished with me for good.
    Can he really stop loving me so quick?
  • Mar 1, 2008, 11:48 AM
    talaniman
    You broke up with him, period. So leave him alone, as what going through his mind is anyone's guess. No, his feeling won't just change over night, but for sure he may be tired of a needy g/f who dumps him on impulse, because she can't go along with his program. He may call, he may not. Make sure you don't.

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