What is going on in his head?
First off, I have always been terrible at the whole dating thing. That's probably how I ended up married to a crazy person. Here is my question:
My divorce will be final on Tueday (4 days and counting!). I met this amazing guy through mutual friends about a month ago and through this time, there have only been 2 or 3 days that we have not seen each other. He knows my divorce isn't final yet and he's going through some stuff, too. He is trying to get visitation rights for his 2 young sons. From our mutual friends, I hear how he's crazy about me, that I'm the first girl he's even given the time of day to since he and his ex split up, no one has seen him so happy as long as they have known him (which is years). Anyway, he treats me wonderfully, tells me I'm beautiful, smart, compliments me all the time. We cuddle on the couch, kiss a lot. But that's the extent of it. We haven't even gotten to that heavy makeout session stage yet and its been 4 weeks! I can't figure out what is going on in his head and feel like I'm getting mixed signals. I could be worrying over nothing, I know he's interested, and I'm not complaining about how we are taking things slowly, but other than one time when we first met I haven't gotten that "got to have you" vibe. Am I going crazy or worrying over nothing?