Well me and my ex have been togethur for short time but we have seem to have love each other sooo much :) . So, he live america and I live japan. I tell him I am going to see him during sumer. I ask him if he can wait until then and he say OK and he love me. So 2 or 3 week later a frind on mine no him well to and they liv same area. One day she tel me that they were hang out while eat lunch and he say to her that me and him don go out enymor and I ask her why has he say that?:confused: she say becase relatioship with him far away was hard for him. And I was so mad becase I tel him I was going to c him soon. :( I just don't know enymor. I don't know if he has always love me for me or just as a toy. How can I tel him how I feel becase so many things I want to say to him are harsh. :mad:

Long distance relationships are hard. Don't be harsh but tell him how you feel. I would keep the plans to see him. You can spend some time working things out when you see him but spend most of the time enjoying each other. If it doesn't work out it will be better to have good memories rather than hate and anger. For it to work out you can not spend what little time you have together fighting.

How old are you? How long have you been together? Short term is what 1 month, six months?

If the relationship is younger then a year then your relationship is still in its courting phase. This is the time when you two are suppose to be enjoy going out and spending time together. Since, this is not happening your relationship is slowly dying.

If you are really into this person you have to break-up and try to start over when you close the distance. If you don't plan on living in America and he does not plan on living in Japan what is the sense.

You are young and beautiful find someone worth you time.

For sure the distance, not only makes communications hard, but leads to a lot of assuming, with so little facts. You just never know as your g/f may have her own agenda. Face to face, is best and I hope you have intentions of closing the distance between you. If not, finding someone closer to home, would be a lot better than this long distance stuff.

Hello...i'm new here, hope can help your problem..
honestly i have same problem with you but that's happen in this year..
little bit different cause she on same country with me...it's all because her mother isn't agree with us..actually she love me but she always scream out on my face asking for help, i keep struggling to reach at her but it's always dissapointed cause she only waiting without try,still confuse cause she on between two side.
i'm decided to not continue this relationship cause i don't want to be remorse, i must thinking about her future at her familiy..
SOMETIMES IN OUR LIFE WE SHOULD BE SELFISH TO GET THROUGH ON OWN HAPPINESS, BUT IN THIS RELATIONSHIP SHOULDN'T...CAUSE IT WILL BECOME DISSAPOINTED..FOR ME..THE MEAN THING IN THIS RELATIONSHIP IS TRUST EACH OTHER..IF THAT HASN'T, IT WILL BECOME HATEFULL..trust me!.. cause i have felt it
Many PARASITE & HYPOCRITE person is wandering around us now and they standing on 1 word that is YOUR SUFFER IS MY HAPPINESS..
they just showing up their outside appearance but the inside is SUCK! better we anticipate first..althought i'm a man, i'm not shy to confess that mostly man principle is "USE IT AS LONG AS TASTEFULL AND DUMP IT IF BECOME BORED"..
just relax..we still young & we have time to reach it...just trying to be NOT FALL AT SAME SPOT..is that anyone who can reach their dreams or become sucessfull without FALL or MISTAKE..???that's NONSENSE...this is our CURSE...we fall or fail to learn get up again & not fall at same spot..
my advise is u shouldn't continue this relationship & don't be desperate..
Sorry if i too fussy & thanks for give me an opportunity to BLOW up this ANGER..
Jo
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