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I dated a guy about a year ago, it was the strongest connection I've ever madewith someone, we had such fun together. It ended but my gut feeling suggests its not over, we are still in contact, but feel a bit down now and again can't help feeling he was the one, will we get bak together?
How did it end?
What does he say?
We were just starting to talk about the future and he met someone else in his local town
I hope you will
In the psychic sense, it strongly appears that you need to consider the facts of this former relationship before spending anymore time and energy on this situation. You say that just as you were speaking of having a future together, he meets someone else and goes for her instead. That should be a BIG CLUE as to how much he must have felt for you and what would be in store for you should any relationship have ensued. If someone is truly serious about another person and starts to speak serious relationship, thus, 'future' and then someone else comes along and he simply dumps the first person in favor of the second, what does that really tell you? It says that he was not truly serious about you to begin with and as hard as it may seem (with great apologies), it further appears you were the only one there at the time and thus, he would have rather had you instead of being alone under those particular set of circumstances. But the moment that other someone popped into his life, he ran full-force to her and dropped you like a hot potato is something that speaks VOLUMES about this situation and something to certainly consider.Quote:
Originally Posted by jetfuel 24
You should seriously consider why you would want someone like that. More than likely he may do the same to his present lady and then go on to another as they become available, just like he started with you. That is not true love -- far from it! Had his heart been set on you, even if the other one had come along, that would not have changed anything for him and you would then know that he was truly the one whom you could share wonderful times with and one whom you then could know was sincere in wanting a true relationship with you. But with the facts being as you have stated them, there are plenty of RED FLAGS all over the place and this may be the time to have cold water splashed on your face so that you can wake up from that rose-colored dream you are having about him and realize that this guy is not "Mr. Right" as everything he has done since he met the other gal has been wrong. Time to Move Ahead and find someone who can be sincere in wanting a relationship but principally, who can PROVE to you that he truly wants that and who can treat you like the lady that you are with full respect and honor, because you are deserving of that and should not waste your time on a man who cannot treat you as such. Life is too short to waste one's time waiting for someone who has already shown their true colors! My very best to you, dearheart! The right man will come along for you if you see in your mind what you truly want and how you want him to be. At the proper time, he will manifest unto you. Do not be impatient in the meantime as all good things are worth waiting for. Never lose hope! This should be a time of healing about this past relationship and to consider that one should not go back to the mistakes of the past. Move forward towards the future and what's in store for you! You are still quite young, use that "jetfuel" of yours to propel you into a good, stable relationship with someone new that the two of you can truly appreciate! It can happen if you truly set your mind and heart on it!
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Wow that was very to the point but very true, I knew it all along jjust needed telling, friends are great but some times they can't be as brutally honest as needed in this instance.
If wanted to see you he wouldQuote:
Originally Posted by jetfuel 24
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