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  • Feb 27, 2008, 09:05 PM
    Simple Asian
    Should I or should I not ?
    So I pretty much like this girl... well starting like her a lot now... lol.. dont no why but I just do... it might sounds silly that I like her... b.c most of we do are textin over the phone...

    We hung out during school not much but not like hung out out a lot... this is pretty much 1 side love( well I can't say it love yet but you no what I mean )

    Call me stupid but well I just think I might have a chance...

    And about a hour ago me and her were texting... I was like " so you the only virgin girl i no " XD... and she like "uhm...i have something to tell you ..i am not a virgin anymore"

    Don't no why but I just got so pissed and like :(?? What?

    So she lost her virginity to a guy that she likes a lot and that guy is leaving to NAVY in 3 days... so I was so pissed and don't no why...

    So what should I do and what I don't no... ahhhhhhhhhhhh I don't even no what to say or ask

    Or even why I brought up this topic... sorry guys I was just need to bring it out... ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
  • Feb 28, 2008, 09:34 AM
    kp2171
    Get over it.

    Really. I know it isn't that easy, but if I got mad every time I dated a girl who had some sexual relationship with another guy, I would have missed out on some great relationships.

    So you like her... until you take action and ask he out, you are just waiting in the wings. If the virgin issue is too much, back off. I respect that this is an issue for some people... but if it is, you don't get to hang around and punish her. You have a choice... you can back off if this is too much of an issue. Just don't hang around and be mad.

    If you are still interested, let go of it and take some action.

    My partner was a young single mother when I met her. I would have lost out on the love of a lifetime if I was mad shed had other sexual relationships.
  • Feb 28, 2008, 12:49 PM
    Simple Asian
    Oh it not b.c of I get mad at her b.c of her sexual relationship...

    b.c I isn't nothing for her so how am I have the right to be mad right ?

    It just that I want opion on should I or shold I not trying to get with her ?

    I mean I want to but I don't think I am up to... ahhhhhhhh confused.. let put it that way
  • Feb 28, 2008, 08:09 PM
    Simple Asian
    Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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