We, 2 years later, still talk on myspace and on the phone sometimes.we try to hang out but never get to doing it.I know we will soon though.we hug and hold each other at school.but I had sex with him my first time his 457234578920th time.since then it's gone from "when are we gonna hang out.?" or "when do i get to see you.?" to "when are we gonna hump again.?" or "we need to get drunk and bang all night." :O ! What's wrong with him.he's treating me like his sex buddy but I'm not about that.I don't want just sex, I miss himmm.I want to be back with him.how do I tell him that without scaring him away or sounding stupid. how would I make that happen. I need help everybody.criticize,critique,tell me what's right cause I obviously don't know.

Dear Amberlynn, He was your first, and you have intense feelings for him, and that's understandable. He does not feel the same as you, nor want, what you want. You must accept this, and let him go, and stop all the contact with this fellow. You will never move on, and cope with your feelings, while still talking with him, and you will be miserable, with the confusion that continuing to talk to him brings you. Give yourself a chance to heal, and see things as they are, and not what you want them to be. Its a good life lesson, if you can learn it.
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Yes I have read all your other posts also, so I know what you have let him do, and what you have done to yourself, so its time to love yourself, a lot more than you love him. LET GO!

Your giving him what he wants- and he is taking full advantage of it and acting careless. You need to withdraw, not only for you, but to make him realize what he has lost. This, in most cases will drive him nuts and make him come running back to you. At that point, you have the upper hand.

But, your better off just going NC and walking away... This method is a double edged sword (it could make him want you- and it will make you heal) and it's up to you wha tyou really want.

I agree with the two other post, you need to let him go and the next time he ask when will you hump again you say on the 32nd of the month ( that's a little joke) . And don't talk to him anymore, if he can't see that there is more to you than sex, then there is no need to be in this relationship.

Well sounds like he just wants to have sex and no girlfriend unless your into sharing the same guy get the hell out of his way. I know it is hard because your first will always be special. But right now he sounds like he's all about trying more then one. He is talking to you like that cause that's all he wants.

You really need to try and forget about him... as you where his 4000000000 sex partner. Seriously I know what its like to have feelings for someone that only wants you for sex, I nearly gave into him because I thought I loved him so much. But I realised I after getting my close friends around me that to him I was worthless if I wasn't willing to do what he wants.
This boy doesn't realise your felings for him and by the sounds of it he isn't interested in anything but sex,
I would advise you to try and get over him, cause he was your first, you will always feel that connection with him and it will be harder to get over it. But until he matures leave the boy to his ways. And if I was you I would be scared of getting an STD since he has slept with so many people.

Yeah that's funny cause he came to me yesterday and told me he thought he had something and asked me if I had anything.hha he got tested and is still waiting on results.