So all the boys in my band talk about how they would never touch a girl unless she shaves down there, well I did but after a day or so it gets stubbly and if I shave it it bleeds? How can I get the stubble off without waxing it?:confused

I'm having that same problem. I've tried getting waxed and it is sooo painful. And when I shave the next day it's rough again and shaving over it is painful. The guys in your band are right almost all men have that same mentality. It's so fustrating. I will do some research but if you find anything out keep me updated.