Im in high school and I really like this guy and he really likes me except its not that simple. He previously went out with my best friend but they broke up because he became too obsessive and went crazy (he had to take anger management for a while). I want me and this guy to go out but I'm afraid that situation will happen again and I don't want to upset him or me. What should I do?

Don't do anything unless your best friend is 100% OK... with this

I think you should leave the crazy guy alone... unless he's better now.

Learn from your best friends mistakes. The same could happen to you. Cn;t you date someone without the temper issues and why lose a friend over a guy like that? Not worth it, especially if he loses his temper with you, then no best friend, and no b/f, a lose-lose situation.

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Originally Posted by jumpsfroggie

Im in high school and I really like this guy and he really likes me except its not that simple. He previously went out with my best friend but they broke up because he became too obsessive and went crazy (he had to take anger management for a while). I want me and this guy to go out but im afraid that situation will happen again and I don't want to upset him or me. What should i do?

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I see three strikes against this guy He is out of the GAME.

1. Not wise to date someone who was with your BEST friend.. even if she okay's it she may not be happy about it..

2. Guy has anger issues not saying one can't change but it doesn't happen overnight.

3. You are young and I am pretty sure that you are not in LOVE with him but infactuated with him

I am pretty sure you can find a guy who hasn't dated your best friend, who is not obsessed and who doesn't have anger issues, you are far too young to be dealing with that much drama when it can be prevented all together..

If I were you, I'm not so certain that I'd want to go out with the guy. Er- maybe you are "crazy in love" with him, who am I to say? But first of all, he has anger management issues. And secondly, he dated your best friend.

Would your best friend be okay with this? Would you be okay with this?
Do you really want to involve yourself in a messy relationship?

Don't Date Your Best Friends Ex. No No No forget What He Says He Probably Has Other Motives For You. What Goes Around Comes Around Trust Me Im Going Through It Now First Hand.