He called the night before he was leaving and asked if I would go with him so I could drive some of the way even though I didn't drive at all . We have been broken up for about three weeks now and I still have strong feelings for him. We went and he paid for everything we stayed the night and we hooked up. Now when I got back he found out that his friend has relasped and is using drugs again and he can't be w/ people who use. So he called later that night to come over to my house, I was sleeping so he went home and then we talked a litle later. I really want him back but I think he just wants to be friends. Even though his mom and his friends thinks we should get back together. Im confused should I just not see him anymore? Or just see where it goes? What are his intentions?

I think you made a bad chioice here. Hooking up with an ex is never a good idea, and if you want him back that is not the way to go about it. It has only been three weeks, you shouldn't be seeing him at all right now. If you think he just wants to be friends, that is probably the case. If you "hook up" with his guy, that is what he is going to use you for.

If you want him back, let him go first. You are still at his every beckon call, you are making yourself way too available to this guy. I'm not sure if you are syain your EX has a drug problem also, about I seriously doubt you need that in your life as well.

As a guy it doesn't sound like he respects you much. If you are going to give him what he wants without the attachment of a "relationship" tag... he is just going to use you. If you want his true intentions, you need to go NO CONTACT for at least a month.

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I really want him back but I think he just wants to be friends

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You mean friends with benefits, don't you? Hooking up for sex, is not the way to get an ex back. Leave him alone, and get your own act together.