A man I've been messaging with on Facebook for about 4 months sent me an invite to that Spark application where you can see who wants to date you. Turns out him and I had both clicked yes on each other. Then he sent me a message saying: According to Spark we had a match,. and Spark suggests that we should "make bunnies". What do you think?

A week or so later he sent a new message saying "... Spark suggests we should: "marry". What do you think?

I know it's probably just for fun, but I just don't see what's so funny about it. Do you think it's funny? To his last message I replied "I think you might spend too much time on Spark :)"

Yesterday I wrote and asked him why he sent me those Spark messages, but he hasn't replied yet. I know he might send the same messages to all his matches, but why?

Maybe he really likes you

... likes her... probably.

... but it's a bit weird/creepy to say the least.

If a girl I've never met face to face said that "a dating website said we should make bunnies" then I'd laugh it off. But right there, the joke should have died. The whole "the dating site said we should get married"... I can see where someone can take that badly...

He could have meant it completely as a joke, and probably did... and perhaps it's just the way you guys talk... that he'd think you'd take it as a joke.

However, if you feel weird about it, trust your instincts. They rarely fail you.

I agree it is very creepy. I would tell him that it made you uncomfortable. Or just back off. The bunny thing was funny the marriage thing was weird.

I'd find it really funny but that's my sense of humour. Although if your sense of humour doesn't match it propably isn't worth it anyway.

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Originally Posted by templelane

I'd find it really funny but that's my sense of humour. Although if your sense of humour doesn't match it propably isn't worth it anyway.

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I didn't find it funny at all, but we all have different sense of humour :)

Sounds like he wants to have sex. Uhm that would be the gist of it.