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  • Feb 21, 2008, 08:46 PM
    997793
    Its too quiet
    So I just got this new boyfriend last Saturday, and I really like himm, but when were together he doesn't say anything I try to start a conversation all the time but it doesn't last... how do I get himm too talk
  • Feb 21, 2008, 08:48 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    Try talking to him about things that interest him. What are his hobbies? Sports? Classes?
  • Feb 21, 2008, 08:49 PM
    ihatewestseneca
    He's probably just shy... how old are you guys? Most guys are intimidated at first.
  • Feb 21, 2008, 08:54 PM
    Rockabilly1955mama
    Ask questions that you can get more of a 'yes and no' answer to. Here are some exapmles:

    What one talent or gifting would you really like to have?

    What is your all-time favorite meal?

    What food do you hate?

    Who is your favorite singer?

    If your CD player only played one song, what would it be?

    What is one thing that you would really like to learn how to do?

    If you could go back in time to any era, what date would you choose?


    Anything that will bring up a good conversation. :)
  • Feb 21, 2008, 09:02 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Rockabilly1955mama
    Ask questions that you can get more of a 'yes and no' answer to. Here are some exapmles:

    What one talent or gifting would you really like to have?

    What is your all-time favorite meal?

    What food do you hate?

    Who is your favorite singer?

    If your CD player only played one song, what would it be?

    What is one thing that you would really like to learn how to do?

    If you could go back in time to any era, what date would you choose?


    Anything that will bring up a good conversation. :)

    Those could also result in one line answers. I would suggest delving into his interests, and talking about that. You may also find that you have things in common.
  • Feb 23, 2008, 02:41 PM
    talaniman
    If a guy won't talk about himself, that's a little to shy, but give it a try.

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