A few months ago, I met a woman who I started seeing. She was married for 14 years, and in a long term relationship after that. When I met her, I was going through a divorce and she was enjoying being "free" and not having to answer to anyone for once. At first, we would just go to lunch or have breakfast but as time went on, we got closer and closer and I started to stay over her house every so often. About a month ago, things began getting really intense and we could call each other everyday and there were times where I would see her 5 or more times a week. For whatever reason, I began having feelings of insecurity when she didn't see as affectionate or when her emails to me began slowing down. I would nitpick on every little thing and start a "discussion" with her about once a week. Now she feels that things went beyond what we had origionally agreed to and feels that she "needs her space". She said that because of our last "discussion" she realized that things were getting out of hand. In light of that, she let me come over this past Tuesday and Wednesday nights and seemed puzzled when I told her that I was going home rather than spending the night. How should I handle this? I want things to continue between us but I don't know what to do to give her "her space".
