let me start by saying I am 15 1/2 and that my school is fillled with sluts.


I was at a party and the guy my friend liked for 4 years started to dance with me, like freak with me, and I went along thinking it was all in good fun.. after a few drinks I got a little tipsy and started to really get on him, we started to make out and before I knew it I was in a guest bed with him having sex. It was my frst time [yes I'm on birth control and he was wearing protection] but my friend didn't find out yet. Im so scared, if she finds out she will hate me and never talk to me, mabey even spread rumours, and if she doesn't I will be carrying a huge weight on my shoulders.

what should I do.

oh and PS: this guy wants to strt a relationship now =[..

What you do is your business don't worry about rumors, I hear about me that quentin tarantino couldn't dream up.

I have found that honesty is always the best policy. If she finds out from the guy she will be a lot more pissed off at you for keeping it from her than if you tell her the truth now. If she is a good friend she will want you to be happy and understand about you guys having a relationship. She will feel hurt but someone will get hurt either way - if you turn down the guy it'll hurt both you and him, if you keep it a secret you will feel guilty and she will probably find out anyway, and if you tell her she'll be mad, but will eventually get over it. The worst thing you can do would be to keep it from her, so I would just tell her and hope she understands. Hope this helped you. Good Luck :)