Originally Posted by FallenFromGrace
It sounds like you aren't entirely sure about this. The "if not - that's ok too." part. I think you need to be true to yourself. If you know that you would regret not giving it a try again with him then go for it, but be prepared you may get hurt. It sounds like he has a lot of demons to fight on his own. You may not be able to help him fight them, it may be something he has to do on his own. Do I think you are an idiot? Well, if I did I would have to call myself one too and I get insulted enough.:p You may want to read jolienoire's Relationship Rules post. She really has some great advice. Read it over and see if you can apply any or all of it to your situation. In the end, you have to do what you think is best for you and your situation, then deal with the consequences, good or bad.:o