I like this guy who I met thorough family.. Anyway we have not spoken in about 4 months.When he met me I can't explain how he was looking at me.Especially when I was speaking and when he left. He has a girlfriend he has been going back and forth for ten years. I heard he thought I was pretty and smart,I heard he liked me a lot. He is kind of upset at me know over a big misunderstanding. I was wondering what I should do. SHould I try to be friends with him. After 4 months maybe he got over what I did. Also what does it mean to like someone a lot when you have a girlfriend..

He has a girlfriend that he has been dating off and on for about 10 years. When someone is in a relationship for 10 years that relationship is serious. This means he is not in any position to offer you anything.

So to answer your question what do you do? You do nothing. Do not pass GO and do not collect 200 dollars!

If he's not married, letting him know you're interested in him is fine... but only when he's completely unattached. No cheaters.

Also, you don't court a guy through comments and observations of other people. Ignore them, even the good observations. They mean nothing.

If you made a mistake, wondering is pointless. Call him and ask for forgiveness, and do this regardless of whether you ever date him. If you wrong someone, you apologize, directly, not through anyone.

Or don't. Sounds like you really have no basis for thinking there is anything here and you could easily put these energies to work on another prospect.

10 yearsz soundsz like a big relationship
But we all know how relationshipsz are these daiisz
They end really quickk and sprout up even fasturr..
Butt to tell you the truth
Going with this guy
Potentially putsz you in the spot of his girlfriend
Because he might as well do the same thing with you
And like another girl ?
Find som1 thatsz more committed

I doubt he would leave a 10 year relationship, for you. Don't even go there. Don't let others lead you to believe there is any chance with him.