Originally Posted by brokenhearted1515
I bit of an update....
So much has happened since my first question and I will try to make this quick. Basically we have been seeing eachother off and on since. We have been going to movies, to the cottage, doing fun stuff. Buts its like he wont talk to me or initate any contact with my for like a week. Then Friday comes and hes all like wanna go away for the weekend? During the week i get nothing, and then when we are alone at the cottage its like he is a different person, hes affectionate, tells me how he feels. I put a stop to all this back and forth crap, a little over a week ago. I had stated to him that i can't go on like this anymore, and i have told him the over and over again, SH!T or get off the pot, or there wont be a pot for you to sh!t in anymore. I need a full time partner, not some part of a part time partner. (Ever since I said i needed some space....he has never been the same, and i didnt mean a break...just a couple hours for me a week) WE have never been boyfriend and girlfriend since he broke up with me. In the begginging of us, he wanted to be my boyfriend so bad, and i just wasnt ready. And now it seems like he doesnt want to be my boyfriend and i really do. We both agreed that our relationship was not working. And i went on NC. I blocked him from MSN, deleted his number in my phone etc etc. So this was last thursday (my birthday actually) I gave him back all of his stuff, and went on my way. Then on saturday, i get a text from him "?" thats all, just a question mark. At 2:00 in the morning. I was up at my girlfriends house drinking, i just ignored it. (surprizingly) He called me a few times the next day. Eventually tricking me with a private number, my father has a private number so i assumed that it was him. He started talking to me like everything was fine. I said to him why did you text me he said that he meant it to be for his friend but must have hit my name instead. Cough BULL Cough. #1 This guys name isnt even close to mine. #2 in order to send someone a question mark, they would have had to text you first...right? So wouldnt you just hit reply. Ok so anyways, NC on monday or tuesday, then thursday he send me a text saying that he has something important to talk to me about. I am such a sucker, so i call him, and he tells me that he really want me to be a part of his life and that he wants to be friends. At first i was like no. Not happening. He got very angry at me and started to swear, and yell. I told him that i wanted nothing to do with him at all if he was going to act this way. He hung up. Then called back like 2 seconds later, like nothing happend, he was happy and telling me that he wanted to start that converstaion over. He was very nice and pleasent to me. I told him that i didnt know about being friends, and that i was doing very well right now, and i that i am happy in my life just the way it is, and i dont really need any other friends. I was trying to get off the phone with him, but it seemed like he wanted more and more information from me. Where have i been? Who have i been with? etc etc. Then when i tell him ( i figure he just wants info and will leave me alone) he calls me a liar! Now i am many things....but not a liar, i am always honest....sometimes too honest. He asks what the situation is and if we are on the same page, I said that i will talk to him whenever, but i dont think being friends would be approprate. Then shot back i guess your new boytfriend wont like that very much, eh? I told him that when he was acting like a mature adult that i would speak to him. And hung up. He called back a few, i didnt answer. That was wed. Today is friday, with NC. Untill he shows up at my work just now. He has driven past my work a few times this week. Which is like an hour drive from where he lives. But today he drove in, he came into my office, I was in total shock i didnt know what to do. I must have loked like a deer caught in the headlights. Its like he was snoopiung around my office to, i have flowers that were sent to me by my friend (who hapopens to be a guy, just friends tho) And he asked me if those were from my new boyfriend. I told him that i didnt have a boyfriend. He said well theya re froma guy tho. I just ignored him and asked him why he was here. He asked if i had my helmet with me (which i always do) and if i wanted to go for a bike (motorcycle) ride (he knows my weaknesses) I asked him why he was here, he said just to say hi. And he continued to say it like 6 times in like 5 mintues. I looked at him and said "hi". I gotta go back to work, ttyl. He left. Then came back, asked me some stupid question, i walked him outside, told him i had to go and went back inside. And now i am sitting here like......? Am i crazy? i sure feel like i am going crazy. I know this is exactuly what he wanted he wanted to keep my mind on him, he wants me to freak out. Damn he won! Urrrrgggg HELLLP!
