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At 27yrs of age I am still a virgin. I know that sounds bad but I just haven't found the right girl yet. But as time goes on I'm getting desperate now to lose it. So I was thinking of paying an escort girl to help me out with this one but don't know if this is a good idea or not. Guys out there, would you like to lose your virginity to an escort girl if you were that desperate enough?
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Originally Posted by johncold
Being a virgin is not a bad thing, and if you are saving yourself, there is nothing wrong with that, male or female, its still a good thing... So you are willing to loose something sacred to a stranger? It wouldn't make you feel any better you just will be an unvirgin still a virgin mentally and emotionally with relationships, therefore although you are fulfilled sexually, emotionally/relationship wise you are still a virgin... I would say wait... Pleasure yourself in the meantime... Don't get desperate...
No, it's not at all bad to be a virgin at your age.
What's bad is feeling "desperate" to lose it.
Consider this: Meet the girl woman of your dreams next month and 1) you either tell her the truth that you've had one other sex partner - a whore, or 2) you lie.
Is that how you'd like her to know you?
He has an excellent point!Quote:
Originally Posted by RickJ
You've already waited this long, you might as well wait until you find someone you at least like and care about a LITTLE.
Doesn't sound bad at all, but why spend good money on a ho, when your waiting for the right female? Find the right female, and you won't be desperate, and be glad you waited. A whore loves your money and not you.Quote:
At 27yrs of age I am still a virgin. I know that sounds bad but I just haven't found the right girl yet.
Hey man, I'm 21, a virgin... do you know how attractive that is to girls? Think about it, wouldn't you be more attracted to an untainted woman? It's the same for them... it shows that you're not like every other guy, you're not just in it for sex. Please don't pay some whore, you'll feel bad about it immediately after, I'm sure. Save your money for a nice girl and take her to dinner.
P.S. I'm sure you know this, but don't use "you know, im a virgin..." as an opening line to meet girls... just recently actually I told a girl I was out with that I'm a virgin... she won't leave me alone now. So yeah, be proud that you've hung onto it, it'll make the right girl feel all that more special.
Wish I was still a virgin at 27 then I would not have made some of the mistakes I have. You hang on to your virginity till you find the right one not lose it on some one who measns nothing to you wait for the right one
Whether you go to an escort or not is not the real issue as I see it. It is the "desperate" feeling you have expressed to lose your virginity. It is a once in a lifetime occasion, so why you lose it is important, perhaps more important at this stage than with whom. So when the desperate feeling disappears then and only then look at with whom.Quote:
Originally Posted by johncold
Your memory of the first time is something that will always be with you, and a fast roll with someone that cares nothing about you is not the memory I would want for my special time
My Mother Always Told Me Once You Lose It You Never Ever Get It Back. Be Wise And Choose Who You Are Giving That To.
I am 24, a virgin, in a country where prostitution is legal. I will lose my virginity by the end of this year to an escort.
What people do not realize is that this is not about the sex. At least, not to me. It is about getting over the hurdle. What if he doesn't meet "the one" next month? What if he isn't meeting "the one" because he isn't putting himself out there because of his anxiety about being a virgin? Dreading that day where he has to tell the girl of his dreams that he is a virgin. I asked out a girl I liked recently, she is 28 years old. I drove over there and the whole way I was hoping she would tell me she already had a boyfriend (and she does, and I was annoyed about it for weeks, but that's beside the point). Why? Because I was scared of actually having to go on a date with her, and then worse yet, see where that leads, and worse yet, have to tell a 28 year old girl that likely has 10+ years of sexual experience that I am a virgin. That sure does a lot for confidence. Maybe she won't care, maybe she will, but it keeps me from feeling confident. I suddenly feel like a small child in comparison to this girl with a high paying job, 4 years older than me, and here I am, little virgin me. It would be different if it were out of choice, then I would stand behind my choice, but really, it isn't. It is life's circumstances getting in the way... then the older I get the more it eats at me and affects my willingness to put myself out there to begin with.
Here, if you go to an escort agency, the reputable ones require all the girls have health certificates every 2 weeks, provided free by the gov't. The girls enjoy their work. There is a misconception that escorts are emotionless and robotic. Perhaps with a 50 euro street hooker yes, but many girls take pride in their work, they have regular customers that they establish relationships/friendships with. They enjoy seeing their clients just like an accountant might enjoy helping one of their clients.
I say go for it if it will help you move on with your life and meet that special someone. Otherwise you will end up being one of the 30 or 40 or 50 year olds posting on forums telling people to "keep waiting for that special someone."
I agree with the person above my first kiss is something that I remember but losing my virginity.. well I just can't place it. Get it over and done with :)
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