I have been seeing a married man at my work. We have know each other for about 8 years but only about 4 months ago we started to see each other. Before he got married he had a serious crush on me , but because we were of different ethnic groups... I never took him seriously. So years went on and he later got married. Now he works in the same building as me and we have been flirting with each other and one thing led to another. He tells me that he has always had these feelings for me and does have feelings for me now that we have been intimate. He has never said anything to me about not being happy with his wife or anything like that... but something tells me that he is very unhappy in his marriage and with the decision he has made. Well, after 4 months of sneaking around, being intimate, I let him go. At first I was okay with it.. but now it seems that my selfrespect got in the way and I called it off with him. The only reason I made an exception to have an affair with this man is because there were no kids involved. His wife is unable to give him children. I didn't break it off because of his wife but because I just could not be the tow in his life (the other woman). But my question is... if I had stuck around... would he ever leave his wife being that there are no children involved and she is not able to produce any children for him in the future?
