Ask Me Help Desk - Am I pregnant

Hi, k I'm 16 and had unprotected sex with my boyfriend about eight times in which every time he ejaculated inside me and I had my period on January 12th then got my period on February 15th which for me is about a week late according to my cycle. But my period is very heavy, at points then just stops and comes back. But I do have all the symptoms of pregnancy like I have severe pains in my abdomen as well though and my breasts are tender and I have constant headaches, frequent urination and so on... and I was told by a doctor before u could still be pregnant even though u get your period but I haven't gone in to see one yes.. but am expected to get an x-ray on my ribs and was wondering if I am pregnant would that hurt it and what are the chances of my being pregnant any help would be nice thank you

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Originally Posted by xphelper

Rawrxo,

First, get a home pregnancy test kit and check yourself before you get an X-Ray please. Based on the description of your menstrual cycle, I doubt that you are pregnant now; however, please stop having sex with your boyfriend; period. You are too young and ill equipped to handle a baby at your age. Stop it! For the record, I am not a doctor but I almost got caught in a situation like yours at a similar age so this is the voice of experience talking.

Um... I am well equipped to take care of a child.. cause you don't know my life please do not question my beliefs I just would like my question answered and no one saying your too young to even have sex and blah blah its my choice and no ones opinon of this is going to change mine so there's no point

Ok then. Please let me rephrase my answer based on your reply.

Hello Rawrxo,

Based on your last response, I would say that if you are not pregnant now, consider that a blessing because its only a matter of time before it happens. In fact, it might be a blessing for you to have twins the first time to avoid any back-to-back pregnancy complications. Also, please consult your family physician about your X-ray concerns during your current and future pregnancies. And my final advice would be for you to stop asking questions if you cannot handle opinions or suggestions related to that question.

Rawrxo,
I was 17 years old when I met my husband and had my first baby. I loved it. I thought that I was soooo prepared... let me tell you something... I don't care what others may say, No one is ever ready to have a baby... I have struggled so much since my daughter has been born. Don't get me wrong I love her with all my heart but just really think about it..
Your 16 right? Do you have a stable source of income, Are you still in school, do you think that you are mentally capable of having a baby? Here's a little scenario,
Say it's about 2:00 in the mornin and it's a school night, the baby wakes up screamin and crying and doesn't want to eat , just cries and cries, and no matter what you do u can't calm him/her down. What are you going to do then? Ask your mom to take over? This would be your baby to take care of and raise, not your mother's. She's already raised her's.
I went to my senior prom at 6 1/2 months pregnant. I had fun, but I can't talk about going to after prom parties or anything like that. As soon as the dance was over, I had to go home. I don't regret any of it I just wish Kyra could have came later in life.
I graduated from high school too, I am now pregnant with # 2 at the age of 20, and I'm attending college.
Not many girls are like me though. Some of them don't finish school and don't even think about college...
Please rethink your decision. You're way too young.. Just like I was... and still am

If you are going in for an x-ray you must tell them that there is a possibility of pregnancy. They will then do a pregnancy test prior to doing the x-ray.

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Originally Posted by Rawrxo

Hi, k im 16 and had unprotected sex with my boyfriend about eight times in which everytime he ejaculated inside me and i had my period on january 12th then got my period on febuary 15th which for me is about a week late acording to my cycle. but my period is very heavy, at points then just stops and comes back. but i do have all the symptoms of pregnancy like i have severe pains in my abdomen as well though and my breasts are tender and i have constant headaches, frequent urination and so on...and i was told by a doctor b4 u could still be pregnant even though u get ur period but i havent gone in to see one yes.. but am expected to get an x-ray on my ribs and was wondering if i am pregnant would that hurt it and what are the chances of my being pregnant any help would be nice thank you

K i don't need advice or ppl trying to change my mind there's no point its my life u have no say in it all i ask is for an answer! And it's a question... questions are meant to be asked in curiosity not to be fully truthful but out of curiosity and understanding of different situations

This question is now CLOSED

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