How can you stop the female ejaculation and normally have an orgasym so you don't make such a mess?? I enjoy it, but it's embarrassing to get everything so wet. Please help this lady.

You can't stop it. It's a natural occurrence. Enjoy it.

Yes, I agree. It is part of the excitement. Hmmm Hmmm, Just enjoy it like the above post said.

I think really the only way to stop it is to not get excited, but what fun is that?

The male gets hard. The female gets wet. Neither condition is an orgasm, (unless you are a squirter during orgasms, and that's quite rare). Use a towel underneath the two of you. The wetter you get, the more you are enjoying being with him sexually. Most men are turned on by excessive female moisture. You being embarrassed by your sexual response would be the same as him being embarrassed every time he has an erection.

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Originally Posted by simoneaugie

You being embarrassed by your sexual response would be the same as him being embarrassed every time he has an erection.

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Which is also rare!

I am one here who doesn't believe there is such a thing as "female ejaculation"... I think it is urine being expelled.

Of you want more information, just post here.

Got to disagree with you on that, Choux.

I'm a "squirter".

It's DEFINITELY not urine.

I'd think I'd know if I peed myself. Wouldn't YOU know?

We can agree to disagree... :):):)

Once again... oh dear.

For the OP just place a towell underneath-or better still, don't worry, enjoy it..

OMG, you don't have to be a squirter to ejaculate. A female expelling "" is ejaculating. And MOST women do it whilst an orgasm. It's not urine.

Try tantric... better orgasm... less often. It's like shooting a machine gun at a target or dropping a bomb on it. If you're going to destroy something you should do it right and have all the ooos and ahhhs to go with it.

Based on the reading I have done by sex experts Annie Sprinkle, Betty Dodson, Carol Queen and having attended countless Good Vibrations sex workshops I DO believe in female ejaculation. It is clear and different from pee.

As for the poster: YOU are so lucky to be able to do this. Not all women can. Do you have any idea how hot this is and how many men are turned on by this? So many women are only able to come via clitoral stimulation and don't know much about G-spot orgasms--in fact of you want to share how you reach this I would love to hear;)

Don't be embarrassed. It is a sexually charged, erotic nuance that is totally human.

It's urine. Where is the organ this so called "ejaculate" is stored?? NOWHERE. :D

Where is the "wetness" that comes with being turned on stored, Choux?

We agree to disagree. :)

Choux read this:

Female Ejaculation

I squirt on occasion, and it does not look or smell like urine.

My question for Choux: you say that you do not have a g-spot thus you don't believe in female ejaculation. SO--how would you know if you have never been in this position? Furthermore, have you had sex with a woman? Seen her do it? Have you watched enough (lesbian) porn to be 100% sure--looking close up and seeing what it is? Have you ever read Dan Savage? I do disagree with you but there's nothing wrong with that.

It's urine, ladies. The g-spot and female ejaculation are simply not proved by *reputable scientific* research...

We agree to disagree.

OK Choux... maybe we are BOTH right:

Nature of the fluid
Studies have been done by Beverly Whipple, John Perry, Gary Schuback, Milan Zaviacic and Cabello Santamaria but their findings are limited. While current information offers no solid information about the source of the fluid, chemical analysis performed on the fluid has revealed that while it sometimes contains at least traces of urine, it regularly contains chemical markers unique to the prostate (whether male or female).

The latest research indicates the possibility that all women produce female ejaculate, even if they are not aware of it:

The expelled or released fluid is not urine, it is an alkaline liquid secreted by the paraurethral (alongside the urethra) glands.
The paraurethral glands produce an enzyme called prostatic acid phosphatase (PAP), along with prostate-specific antigen (PSA).
Skene's gland also produces Human Protein 1, a trait formerly believed to be unique to the male prostate.

I got that off Wikipedia--search female ejaculate if you want to read the whole thing...