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  • Feb 17, 2008, 05:46 AM
    vic-vic1994
    Friend is ignoring me
    I've got this friend, we used to be really close but recently she has been ignoring me and I get the impression she never knows what to say to me. I am in a group of friends of about 5 people and she has started getting closer to one of the other people.
    I don't mind her being friends with other people but I feel left out and all the people in the group have started leaving me out and I don't know what I've done! I love them all but I was always closer to her than anyone else. I've tried hanging out with other people but our class is so small that there's hardly any one else to be friends with!

    Can anyone help? PLEASE!! :(
  • Feb 17, 2008, 11:50 AM
    N0help4u
    At this point you may have nothing to lose by 'pulling your friend aside' and asking her to be honest with you. No matter how much it may hurt... and ask her for a second chance to be close again.
  • Feb 17, 2008, 11:50 AM
    raggablue
    What have you got that they like about you? Just remind them of why they are friends with you :)
  • Feb 17, 2008, 12:02 PM
    N0help4u
    Just kidding around ragga :D
  • Feb 17, 2008, 12:18 PM
    raggablue
    Dony get me started again... ;)
  • Feb 17, 2008, 01:00 PM
    emoney
    Go tell your friend how you feel;)
  • Feb 22, 2008, 09:58 PM
    barbiechick123
    Yea just tell her. Honestly what have u got to lose?
  • Aug 22, 2012, 03:43 PM
    VioletSkies
    I don't think you did anything wrong, maybe the rest of them are just doing things together and they don't realize what they are doing to you. I suggest that you give them tiny little hints at what they're doing when the moment occurs, something small like "Hi guys, whatchya' doin'?" or remind them of a fun time you all shared together, small things like that. If they don't answer your calls then ask them why when you talk to them next, you may also catch them at a bad time when you text or email them so make sure to keep that in mind. I remember when I wasn't purposely trying to ignore my friend but my phone was having failed messages, stopped showing caller ID, or was so sick I couldn't use my phone to talk to them anymore. Remember that the other person might not be trying to ignore you too. But remember that if the rest of the stuff doesn't seem to get the message across talk to them about it. Good luck! I hope I helped. :D

    -Love yourself and the world will love you. <3
    ----VioletSkies----

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