So.. brief story...

In the past month I've hooked up with like 5 different guys... now before you go insane.. when I mean hook up I don't mean sex.. because I'm still a virgin.. and I'ma college student by the way...

Well.. I like this guy I think... but he is slightly older.. okay.. well.. like quite a bit... it seems like I think about him all the time because we usually talk onlinen each day... however now his phone is broken.. and he hasn't been online and I'm sad.. I've only known him for like 2 weeks. But I still feel bad... think he has lost interest? I haven't seen him online tonight..

Plus idon't know what to do.. I almost feel burnt out on dating,but at the same time I think I'm really thirsty for the attention from a boyfriend.. but I do have this boyfriend who won't stop trying to get me back either.. but it's just a giant mess and I don't know what to do.. or exactly what I want.. I tried taking a break.. but... well. I just don't know.. any advice/

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Originally Posted by lizliz

So.. breif story....

in the past month i've hooked up with like 5 different guys... now before you go insane.. when i mean hook up i don't mean sex.. becuase i'm still a virgin.. and i'ma college student by the way...

well.. i like this guy i think... but he is slightly older.. okay.. well.. like quite a bit... it seems like i think about him all the time because we usually talk onlinen each day... however now his phone is broken.. and he hasn't been online and i'm sad.. i've only known him for like 2 weeks. but i still feel bad... think he has lost interest? i haven't seen him online tonight..

plus idon't know what to do.. i almost feel burnt out on dating,but at the same time i think i'm really thirsty for the attention from a boyfriend.. but i do have this boyfriend who won't stop trying to get me back either.. but it's just a giant mess and i don't know what to do .. or exactly what i want.. i tried taking a break.. but... well. i just don't know.. any advice/

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Hello,

Your confusion about relationships is normal for your age. Many women are attracted to older men because they appear to know "how to really treat a woman" but these older men also have the experience to manipulate your emotions. Meeting the right person takes time and it usually will happen when you least expect it.

Confusion about relationship can also mean that none of them are right for you.
Be stronger about taking a break from worrying about having somebody in your life.
Often, especially the wrong one, can end up side tracking you from your goals and dreams.

There was a song in the 70's
Oh, it's sad to belong to someone else,
When the right one comes along.
Yes, it's sad to belong to someone else,
When the right one comes along.

So I'll live my life in a dream world,
For the rest of my days.
Just you and me walking hand in hand,
In a wishful memory...
Oh, I guess it's all that it will ever be...

Take your time enjoy your life and friends and Stay focused on the goals and dreams and you will know when *the right one* (someone you know you are happy with without all the confused feelings) comes along.