Is he gay?straight?just no into me?why then?
Been with him for just over 5 months
We have had sex 4 times maybe...
Usually I am the one who's just not into sex
But I am so attracted to him that I really want to for once.
And he acts like he doesn't.
Sometimes he teases me but it is only when he is going home(cause' its late and he's GOT to go to sleep), or some other circumstance where it would be impossible for us to do it.
Were both mid 20's.
He works out a lot... dont think he takes steroids, but know he does drink these protein shakes everyday.
I try to turn him on, but he is just sort of like "oh i have to work/go to sleep/im tired/ect.
when we did have sex the whole 4 times, he sucked pretty bad, but i didnt tell him. just encouraged him and told him he was great cause i thought maybe he just had no confidence.
we usually only have sex when we've been drinking too. and then he "cant" stay hard due to the alcohol. which i think is bs.
is it me?
maybe i scare him?
i dunno what to do, it is really frustrating. is he gay maybe?
he keeps telling me he 'loves me" but why won't he act like it?
And yes, I have tried addressing this issue, and he says "it's not you babe, i am just tired/its the alcohol/insert excuse here."