While for most of you this is quite elementary, but for myself who is just getting back into the dating world (after a 4 year relationship) its slightly confusing to me :) This past weekend while out with some friends after class I met a girl and proceeeded to spend some of the night dancing with her and having a couple drinks, I could tell from the first moment she was interested (as she made her friend come up to me first lol) and at the end of the night she was explainign how I 'HAD' to call her and hang out. The question now is, when and how do I call without appearing as too overbearing or more importantly desperate. On the night we met I was relatively unconcerned with what she thought about me and was able to crack jokes on her, etc... then when time came my boys needed to leave (as I was the ride) I just walked away saying I had to go and was too busy to stay later and I think this helped increase the attraction greatly. However now I need some help or some ideas on how to call her and keep this mystery about me up, that I'm not dying for her approval, to get to where she is willing to hang out again and not looking at this weekend as one night of fun, thanks everyone!