What different things can I do to turn him on and spice up our sex life?

Hello mama:

Have you tried oral sex? I hear that's the new thing.

excon

What sort of things have you already tried? I mean, there are whistles, whips, belts, boots, dildos and books. Those things aside have you just tried telling him to lay there.. tell him he can't move and then go to work on him. Kissings fun too when you won't let him kiss you back. :p Although, I have never had it where they stayed still as long as I wanted them too. That can be fun too.;)

As him to meet you at a lounge/bar, and be talking to a very attractive man when he arrives. Brush him off for a few minutes.

Should set him on fire and make for lots of sexual excitement.