I need help. :P how do you know if a person likes or just only a friend. Thers this person I know that I fell for because. He was there and never left me on any day that I am sad.. he always wants to see me smile. One day we both were talking about love and then I suddenly brought up the topic about him courting a friend of mine. He told me that if he's busted he would court me. I was stunned or shocked at what he said. But it felt like he mad me reserved. But I felt happy when I read it. As the next day we saw each other and acted like nothing happened. He came up to me and sai. "dont forget what we talked about last night okay?" and I'm like what? And he said. Oh never mind.. then as days passd by I saw his status in Yahoo or friendster saying he loves the girl so much he's courting his life is over w/o her. So eventually I get hurt. How do I tell him what I feel? Is it wrong to say it? I never want to because. I don't want to tloose our friendship... help me.. I'm confused :(

What do you feel towards him?. I think he was in a way flirting with you when he said those words

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he told me that if he's busted he would court me

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.. I THINK HE WAS Just FLIRTING WITH YOU SO DON'T MAKE Yourself FEEL TOO CONFUSSED ABOUT IT.

Your friends, and that doesn't mean b/f and g/f. You like each other, and have feelings for each other, that doesn't equate to romance, especially since you KNOW he likes someone else, and is pursuing them. There will always be friends, and boyfriends, and I think you should know the difference. Boyfriends come and go, friends will be there, when you need them, as he has shown.