People who have read my previous questions will know I'm very close with my best friend who is a guy. I haven't had any feelings for him before other than friendship but recently I have started to... on my birthday he slept at mine and we did a few things.. we didn't go all the way but it was more than a kiss... now I can't stop thinking about him and what it felt like being in his arms and whenever people talk about him I get butterflies in my stomach. I don't want to tell him how I feel because I'm not sure he feels the same and I'm scared I'll lose him! Please can somebody help??

Don't you think that if you don't tell him how you feel you will lose him that way as well?

I would take the chance and tell him.

What's the harm?

It's a 50/50 here.

You know that things aren't going to be the same since you guys hooked up. I actually hooked up once with my best friend and we actually gave it a chance because we talked about how our feelings were changed after hooking up .But I'll give you my opinion ,talk about the issue ''what will happen if we break up '' or ''Will we still be friends ''. I wish I could have talked about that to my best friend because after we broke up I lost him ,now we don't talk .
So talk to him ,I know it going to be hard but that's the only way .Also if you guys are really close even if u guys break up nothing will be in the way of your friendship.

Hi there I think you should follow your heart! You only live once after all:D

I think you should tell him. I've been in this same situation. We got together but it didn't work out so well, we broke up but are still VERY close friends. Yeah it might be awkward, but you'll get over that. I think you should try it because later on in life you might regret this and you don't want that. Hope I Helped. =)

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Originally Posted by MeNdOniMe

People who have read my previous questions will know i'm very close with my best friend who is a guy. i haven't had any feelings for him before other than friendship but recently i have started to... on my birthday he slept at mine and we did a few things.. we didnt go all the way but it was more than a kiss... now i can't stop thinking about him and what it felt like being in his arms and whenever people talk about him i get butterflies in my stomach. i don't want to tell him how i feel because i'm not sure he feels the same and i'm scared i'll lose him!! please can somebody help????

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Okay it seems your falling for your best friend you should tell him because I think he's feeling the sameway to cause you know everything about each other your not going to loose him tell him how you feel