Hello, I have looked on the internet and cannot find a answer... maybe somebody can help.
Imagine if you can... I am 35 yrs old, 5'7, long brown hair, hazel eye's, and I wieght 140lbs.. am I a tub or am I attractive... I think this would be a good question for a fitness kind of person... should I tone or loose?

No one can answer this without having seen you... but you lack self esteem... maybe that's why no one approaches you etc a lack of confidence...

Lets start with your own opinion of yourself...

Do you think you are an eye-catcher? If so that will make you look incredibaly attractive. Confidence itself makes a person more good looking, at least that is what I think.

140 lbs at 5'7" is not a tub. 170 yes, but not 140.

For your height and weight, they match perfectely