My boyfriend decided that we should take a break because we were fighting a lot... its been two weeks now and he said he needed space but he gets mad if I don't talk to him and lately he's been coming over to talk to me. I want him to get over this break but he says he needs a little more time... how much longer should I wait for him? Will I ever get him back?

Well honestly I kind of said that same thing to my ex also and what I really meant was I need some space away from you cause your not giving me anyspace what so ever. So I believe that he wants more then just a break, but that's just my opinion and I could be wrong.

The only thing you can do it wait. So wait patiently and don't cause yourself too much distress in the meantime.

This might be his way of distancing hiself from you forever. This happened to be, but in a different situation. It's easier to leave a relationship when you are not in one.

Get him back!

You are way to available to him. He can't have his cake and eat it too, so either he wants a break or not. Doesn't seem like it to me. I think he is keeping you interested, but leaving him free to do as he pleases, with whomever. I think he needs to know its time to sh!t, or get off the pot. Tell him to stop coming by with BS!! He asked for a break, give it to his game playing A$$. Excuse the language.

Since he wants break giv him one.. well you are.. enjoy the break yourself also.. and yes I agree with talaniman..

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YOU ARE WAY TO AVAIBLE TO HIM!

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Put him on ice- give him the time he needs. Make him miss you, and I assure you most likely he will come back.

But for real, put him on ice.

I am in a similar situation. My boyfriend of four months has played hot and cold for the last month. He asked for a break 5 days ago, I gave him just that. Never called/texted/emailed or facebooked and now he's just texted me to see how I am doing. I may respond, I may not but the point is I am not frantic and if I respond it will be short, sweet and vague. It will leave him wondering what I am up to, let him know that I am just fine without him and indicate that I am mature and not bitter about the situation. When a man wants space, give it to him. Pestering him will only force an ever bigger wedge between you. Be the attractive, confident woman he fell for. Also, if you give him the space he asked for, it raises your value in his eyes. No one wants to be with a needy, co-dependent woman.