I've been with this guy 6years. But he left me a long time ago, Since then he has met and had a baby with another girl. We have children together and also live together. We still have sex with one another. And I treat him like were together but the point is were not. He's moved on with his life so why can't I?

I must say some girls do the same thing that you have done and still do. See I did that once with my best friend and we are still best friend. But it doesn't always work like that> you know that you are only hurting yourself not him. His just using you and that is it. Imagine if he cheats on his girl now what makes you think he will be faithfull with you? You have to think about that. Stop letting him use you and letting him think that he has the best of you because that is all you doing. Sorry that I was blunt but it's the truth