:confused: My name is Tiffany and I am 24 and my boyfriend is 24 years old also, I already have two children from 2 other relationships, but I want one with the person that I am going to marrying. I have a question we are trying to get pregnant with the man that I am engaged to, we have bee trying for 2 months now. I am not sure when me period started but it ended on 01/01/2006 and then I started bleeding again on 01/12/2006 and it was very light not like a normal period. Moreover, it ended on 01/15/2006, then I took a ovulation test and it said that I was so we had sex that night. In addition, today is supposed to be the day that Implantation is suppose to happen. We have noticed that my breast has become larger. Nevertheless, I do not know what to do. Is it to early to take a blood test to see if I am pregnant; is it too early for a test too? I am taken a lot of pregnancy test and they all come back negative. It is killing me not knowing if I am or not. I don't know what to do, please help me someone, anyone!!

Tiffany

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Originally Posted by tiffany7311981

:confused: My name is Tiffany and I am 24 and my boyfriend is 24 years old also, I already have two children from 2 other relationships, but I want one with the person that I am going to marrying. I have a question we are trying to get pregnant with the man that I am engaged to, we have bee trying for 2 months now. I am not sure when me period started but it ended on 01/01/2006 and then I started bleeding again on 01/12/2006 and it was very light not like a normal period. Moreover, it ended on 01/15/2006, then I took a ovulation test and it said that I was so we had sex that night. In addition, today is supposed to be the day that Implantation is suppose to happen. We have noticed that my breast has become larger. Nevertheless, I do not know what to do. Is it to early to take a blood test to see if I am pregnant; is it too early for a test too? I am taken a lot of pregnancy test and they all come back negative. It is killing me not knowing if I am or not. I don't know what to do, please help me someone, anyone!!!

Tiffany

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Dear, CALM DOWN. This is not an emergency. Just take one day at a time and relax. Stress can be bad for you if you are, and it's a little early to start spending money on tests and then worrying yourself over them all the time. Just in case you forgot what it was like, check out the sites I'm including, and at least wait until your next menstrual cycle is due. In my day, we didn't even worry about 'implantation bleeding' or any home pg tests, and still managed to survive without all the stress. If it happened, then it happened. If it didn't yet, then there is always next month. You should know you can't rush mother nature and have to take what she gives you. Good luck,and please by all means relax. If you really want reassurance, make a doctor's appointment and check out the sites to refresh your memory. Unless you had any previous complications, don't worry. Also, keep us posted.
Remember, these sites do not take the place of a doctor's visit if you feel anything wrong!

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/sym...gnancy/PR00102 scroll down and even get answers on flying while pregnant, exercise, dangers, etc.
http://www.epigee.org/pregnancy/symptoms.html

www.askdramy.com The U.K. online doctor.you can post on a forum, or 'ask the Dr. Amy' with a click. The FAQ Tab on the homepage is also a good place to click and has a lot of good subject matter. P.S. Most of the articles are printable in PDF format.


http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/15/15_9_16.gifHoping your wish will come true and by all means, stay relaxed.

I agree with Chery.

You need to slow down.

You will get pregnant in time, so for now, just have sex and enjoy it. Don't stress yourself out over it.

And you and he are not even married yet. Focus on that and other things and the pregnancy will come to you.

You already have 2 kids with 2 different fathers. This will make 3 for 3. Wait till you are married. You never know, he could split on you before the ceremony.

:rolleyes: Thanks so much for both of you input on my questions. Both of you make very good points, it helps to hear it from somebody that does not know me at all. That is hard to do not to focus on getting pregnant or even being pregnant. However, we are planning to get married, but do not forget that I have known him for 11 years. Nevertheless, with this go around things are different, he acts different in so many ways. In addition, yes, both of my boys have different daddies, but there is nothing wrong with that what so ever on their parts, but it is on my part. I live with that part of my life every day, but above all I love them and I love him. I am so deeply in love with my boyfriend so much. I have loved him from day one. I have come to realize that I always have been in love with him. Moreover, I always think I will.:)

;) That's wonderful Tiffany, I wish you the best of luck with your boyfriend and the future of your family. Everyone deserves to be happy despite past mistakes, you go girl!

Very happy to hear that some people's dreams still come true, no matter how long it takes. Again, all the best to you and yours!

Even if you do it perfect at exactly the right time, it does not mean you will get pregnant that time, only that the odds are better. Some couples will chart and graph and take body tempertures for months and months, and not have any luck.

I do wish you luck, but it may not happen overnight, it may not be this month, it may not be next year, but you will have to keep trying.

Good luck