Girlfriend broke up with me and is asking to hang out again after 4 days
My ex (who is younger) and I started dating about a month and a half ago. She is conservative and I was only her first or second serious boyfriend we dated and she was really into me A lot. I could always tell that she was really shy and a little insecure especially around me she was worried what I thought and what other people thought ( I'm the opposite I'm really don't care what people think and I laugh things off) things started getting awkward so I talked to her for a while and found out she was feeling sexually pressured and felt like she wanted a lot of time with her friends without having to worry about her boyfriend. I talked to her for the whole night and something really clicked and we instantaneously had a great connection again ( I guess I solved her problems) I just assured her that I was willing to wait and that she could have time with her friends I didn't care as I would do the same and that maybe us and our friends could hang out together... immediatlly after she was really into me A lot again writing the same sweet messages texting me all the time and just thinking about me a lot. I had a ty week we hung out a little and text each other but I didn't call her for that whole weekend. I guess she assumed there was a problem again so she called me we talked and she said she didn't want a boyfriend that she wasn't happy and didn't want all the drama and problems and didn't want to always have to worry about it she cried the whole time she was saying this... personally I think she just is young and isn't ready and is scared... anywho I could tell she had problems talking to me and seeing me in the hallway but I was still nice and smiled and waved... I immediatlly cut her out of my life and started talking to other girls , its not that I didn't like her I just don't get stuck on girl easily as I just really want a girl who likes me for me and I can have a good relationship with. Its had been four days since we broke up and I know she was thinking about me a lot and she texted me on Friday ( we broke up monday) she was asking what I was doing and what time I was going to be done, eventually it lead to her telling me she had wanted to see me that night.I told her it wasn't a good night as I was busy. She text me again the next day I was in the city and we just had a short conversation... I usually am never confused but I am with this situation I mean its been 4 days since SHE broke up with ME I don't know if she realized what's gone or is just trying to be friend or is wanting to get back or just wants my attention again... idk whether to be nice or if I want to talk to her or what this whole thing is all really weird any thoughts would really help
Girlfriend broke up with me and is asking to hang out again after 4 days
My ex (who is younger) and I started dating about a month and a half ago. She is conservative and I was only her first or second serious boyfriend we dated and she was really into me A lot. I could always tell that she was really shy and a little insecure especially around me she was worried what I thought and what other people thought ( I'm the opposite I'm really don't care what people think and I laugh things off) things started getting awkward so I talked to her for a while and found out she was feeling sexually pressured and felt like she wanted a lot of time with her friends without having to worry about her boyfriend. I talked to her for the whole night and something really clicked and we instantaneously had a great connection again ( I guess I solved her problems) I just assured her that I was willing to wait and that she could have time with her friends I didn't care as I would do the same and that maybe us and our friends could hang out together... immediatlly after she was really into me A lot again writing the same sweet messages texting me all the time and just thinking about me a lot. I had a ty week we hung out a little and text each other but I didn't call her for that whole weekend. I guess she assumed there was a problem again so she called me we talked and she said she didn't want a boyfriend that she wasn't happy and didn't want all the drama and problems and didn't want to always have to worry about it she cried the whole time she was saying this... personally I think she just is young and isn't ready and is scared... anywho I could tell she had problems talking to me and seeing me in the hallway but I was still nice and smiled and waved... I immediatlly cut her out of my life and started talking to other girls , its not that I didn't like her I just don't get stuck on girl easily as I just really want a girl who likes me for me and I can have a good relationship with. Its had been four days since we broke up and I know she was thinking about me a lot and she texted me on Friday ( we broke up monday) she was asking what I was doing and what time I was going to be done, eventually it lead to her telling me she had wanted to see me that night.I told her it wasn't a good night as I was busy. She text me again the next day I was in the city and we just had a short conversation... I usually am never confused but I am with this situation I mean its been 4 days since SHE broke up with ME I don't know if she realized what's gone or is just trying to be friend or is wanting to get back or just wants my attention again... idk whether to be nice or if I want to talk to her or what this whole thing is all really weird any thoughts would really help