Hey, I am new to this site and I'm at a time of my life that I am just confused and do know what to do, sorry about the bad grammar :p

So, Here's the drill, I'm 12. I like football (soccer), reading writing sleeping and socialising, I hope to be a journalist when I am older. But I have a few questions because I am sexually confused and I don't know what my orientation is..

1. I like a Girl, who's one of my closest friends who's going out with a boy. Last year in Year 6 I had a crush on her and I just lost intersted. Our friendship that year feelout because I told her I liked her when her boyfriend at the time was leaving state. And when she breaks up with the douche she is going out with now. Most people would say to aks her out then and then it would be a preat of yr6.
I'm in year 7 now.

2. I think I might be gay or bixsexual - I don't know what to do.. about this.. I have a little crush on my friend who's
A boy..

Jackie ~

How are you? First, I want to let you know that at 12 years old, you don't need to worry about all this stuff as much as you probably do. I was in the same place as you 7 years ago, and I wish now that I hadn't spent my time worrying about who I am. To answer your first question, I would try asking her out, or telling her that you like her again. The worst that could happen is that she doesn't like you back, but trust me, in middle school that stuff only matters for a week or two.

For your second question: Don't try to make a definition for who you are right now. In middle school people put enough labels on us, you don't have to put anymore on yourself. At 12 years old, you are changing a lot, and these changes won't stop for at least another 8 years. It is perfectly natural to have strong feelings for a close friend who is also a boy, anything you feel is natural for you. You don't have to be the same as all of your friends, or the people on T.V. Just know that in time you will discover who you are, and right now you just need to focus on having fun!

I hope that this was helpful to you, good luck!

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Hey, I am new to this site and im at a time of my life that i am just confused and do know what to do, sorry about the bad grammar :p

So, Heres the drill, im 12. I like football (soccer), reading writing sleeping and socialising, i hope to be a journalist when i am older. But i have a few questions because i am sexually confused and i dont know what my orientation is..

1. I like a Girl, who's one of my closest friends whos going out with a boy. Last year in Year 6 i had a crush on her and i just lost intersted. our friendship that year feelout because i told her i liked her when her bf at the time was leaving state. And when she breaks up with the douche she is going out with now. most people would say to aks her out then and then it would be a preat of yr6.
im in year 7 now.

2. I think i might be gay or bixsexual - i dont know what to do.. about this.. i have a little crush on my friend whos
a boy..

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Do you still have this crush on her?. and so you really think it's a crush on your boyfriend?. why do you think you have crush on your boyfriend?.

Sorry if this question doesn't help it's because I don't get much of what you wrote up there.

Lol I'm not bi, :D

What do you mean?

I got a girlfriend ;D

This is way outdated a lot has happened

I moved state
I live with my dad now
Lol yer, and I finally got a girlfriend ;D