Well there's this girl that I like... and its not that I'm just totally crushing on her.. it's that I reall actually care about this girl and I never thought I would say that. The problem with her is that I kind of.. dated her best friend whom she really does love. We both like each other now and its just bothersome the fact that she can't afford to hurt her best friend. I like this girl more then I thought I would and I haven't liked someone else after my ex girlfriend in awhile so it must be something important. Is there any way that I can convince this girl to give me a chance? Nothing came of me and her best friend except a few kisses here and there , we never truly went out . But this girl that I like , she says she knows her best friend more than anything and that it bothers her. I really don't want to lose this opurtunity . What should I do?

Well if she likes you too and wants to get into a relationship as well, maybe she should tell her best friend, its probably better coming from a best friend than an ex. If the best friend seems OK with it then go for it, but if not then I suppose its up to the girl

Just my opinion, leave her alone, and avoid the drama that is sure to come. Look around there are plenty of OTHER oppurtunities.

It sounds like there's not much you can do. It's out of your hands. If she feels that her loyalty to her friend precludes her going out with you, then that's her call. It may not make sense to you but that's often how it happens.