Hi there.. I am 19 this year.. I have been with my ex boyfriend for about a year.. we are serious about each other.. so last christmas, he brought me back for a dinner with his family.. things didn't go well.. his parents forced us to break up because they do not like me.. well, he's a very obedient child.. it has been 2 months since we broke up.. but I still love him very much and he still loves me too.. I know that because we still mssg each other and call each other daily(though not as much as last time).. but what I want is him coming back to my arms.. being my official boyfriend back.. I miss all d great times we had together.. what should I do? Somebody help me..

I dearly wish I could.. but sorry.. even my bf's parets are stirck and he such obedient boi.. tho I wish there won't be like this problems with us in the future ><!

Even my parents are strick.

Most likely he will let them control him for many years to come and maybe for the rest of his life. Would you be happy in a relationship like that?

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Originally Posted by controlling parents

hi there..i am 19 this year..i have been with my ex bf for about a year..we are serious about each other..so last christmas, he brought me back for a dinner with his family..things didn't go well..his parents forced us to break up because they do not like me..well, he's a very obedient child..it has been 2 months since we broke up..but i still love him very much and he still loves me too..i know that because we still mssg each other and call each other daily(though not as much as last time)..but what i want is him coming back to my arms..being my official bf back..i miss all d great times we had 2gether..what should i do? somebody help me..

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Hey.. well sorry to say but you were dating him not his parents he needs to grow up and realise that and if its meant to be he will be in your arms again... and needs to face up to his parents...

Maybe he listens to his parents. Maybe his parents are paying his college. I listened to my parents because they were helping me and they loved me. I still listen, but make my own choices. He might not be ready for a serious relationship, maybe he wants to finish school or has other aspirations. I'm sorry for your loss.