My Wife and I are recently separated. I still love her very much and I want her to know that without telling her. What do you think I should do? What are some Valentines day gift ideas?

The gift should reflect her needs and feelings. If the gift only represents you and/or lust it is better not to give a gift. She may feel differently than me. Sometimes, no Valentine's day gift at all is hard to take, even if you two are separated.

Valentine's day is one time that gift giving is really important. Even a heartfelt card along with flowers and chocolate would be nice. If you are aware of something she has been wanting and can afford it, go for it.