I'm a bi teenager (14) and I have a boyfriend. He wants to have sex this Saturday.
We will be using condoms.
Should I have sex with this guy?
I mean he has had sex before.
Should I or not
THIS IS BI SEX!
WITH ANOTHER GUY!

I vote no.

Once you give it away, it's gone forever.

Well, I have one question for you:

Are you ready to be a parent?

Of course not, for one, you are not old enoug for this,
For two it is not legal , so assuming they are older than you, they can end up in Juv detention or jail ( depending on age)
And condoms are not 100 percent, so there are isues there

Condoms are nice, but you should decide that when you start having sex, you're ready to deal with pregnancy. I mean really, not someone else, YOU. Not as a mental exercise, but really ready.

If you decide not to do it, and you should decide NOT to do this, this guy will get mad and go looking for it elsewhere. See the problem? This seems bad for you, but it's not. He wants you to do something that's not in your best interest, and may only stay around if you give "it" up. You're going to be better off when he leaves and takes his sexual pressure with him.

I heard a great tip on this forum which will work great if you want to get a guy to stop talking about sex to you... say something like: "Hey, if we're going to have sex we won't be using birth control because I've decided to have your baby...what names does your Mom like?"

Please don't have sex. People are having sex at way too young of an age. 14 years old.. You feel older than what you really are, I know it, but when you look back you are really going to regret it if you do. You shouldn't be having sex unles you are ready to raise a child. A condom is NOT 100% effective.. Do NOT let someone talk you into having sex. You are still very young. I'm not saying you have to wait until marriage, but at 14 you are not going to marry this guy.
Don't have sex until you are physically, emotionally, and financially stable enough to have a child. Wait at least until you are in a stable relationship that has lasted a while.
Another thing, your body isn't developed enough to have a child or to be having sex. Think about it, would you want your kid to be having sex at 14? I think not.
I hope you do what is morally right for your sake.

OK, see you added bi on your question to clear it up. But the basic things stay the same at 14 you are not ready to have sex of any type.

Ah, I see.

It's homosexual intercourse.

You're still not emotionally ready to have sex. I know you think you are, but you're not.

If he loves you, he'll wait. The thing is--you wouldn't be asking us if you should, if you were really ready. If you were ready, you wouldn' thave the doubts that you're having.

Hold off at least a couple more years. There are a lot of things you can do that don't involve sex that will help you get to know each other better (a LOT better) before doing something you can't undo.

If he's 14 and he's already had sex before, you never know what he's carrying around disease wise.. condoms aren't 100% effective for anything.
Don't have sex until you are emotionally ready enough to do so, and at 14 you think you know everything there is to know, but you do not.
You should wait to have sex with another person when you have been with that person for a while.. a year or more. Don't start being promiscuous at a young age because by the time you find someone you really love, and they find out about it, they may look down upon you.
Please think it thoroughly.

NO, doing it before you can appreciate it fully, spoils it forever. Wait until it means more than hormones and exercise. I think it will be a while before your ready for the real human connection, anything else is a waste of good sweat.

I've seen this question a million times over... and every time, this has been my response:

If you have to ask a forum with thousands of strangers... then you PROBABLY shouldn't.

I'm not saying that it's bad to ask for advice... because people here at AMHD give great advice. But really... if you got to ask, chances are, no.