I don't want to get divorced
Hello, I'm 29 and I'm married for the second time(coming up on 6 months). My husband has quite a bit of problems. He served in Iraq twice, he has PTSD pretty bad. He has 3 kids with 2 different women, and he has a bit of an anger problem. I knew all of this going into the relationship, but I feel for him hard. We've been together for 2 years now and we've had good and really bad days. Back in Sept. he accidentally shot himself in the leg, and he's been 3 hrs away in a military hospital. They are helping him rehab his leg and his drinking problem or so I thought. He was home for about a month over the holidays and for awhile everything was fine. We were getting along and laughing again. About a week before he left he startted being nasty again. (Just a side note I have been taking care of his oldest child every other week and his 2 little ones evry other weekend and on Tuesdays). This past Thursday I get a phone call from him around 6am, he was really drunk, I asked him if I could come see him over the weekend. He said "no, don't bother." The base were he is had some kind of super bowl trip for them. I said "that figures." With that he said "you're so mean, I never want to speak to you again" and hung up. I of course was crying so upset wondering why is he so mean. Later that day his mother called me and told me he wants a divorce. I freaked out and had to leave work. His whole family including him were trying to call me all day. I didn't answer, they thought I was going to kill myself. I just didn't want to be bothered. So he calls me all weekend and I never answered leaving me messages that he doesn't want me to have his daughter at all. His mother disagreed with him and told him not to mess with her head. So I have her this week. I have her call him and the first time they spoke he made her hug and kiss me saying he loves me, and that I don't love him anymore. She asked me 4 times if I wanted to speak to him and I finally gave in. Our conversation was 5 minutes long, we weren't screaming but it did end up with me hanging up on him. I haven't spoken to him since. He left me a message today stating that the "papers" are on there way. I am so devastated I can't eat, concentrate. I really want to work it out but I'm not sure what exactly I should do. PLEASE SOMEONE HELP!