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  • Feb 6, 2008, 11:11 PM
    smcthatgirl2
    Girl left behind
    OK this is going to sound really lame but I just feel so frustrated that I am 15 (nearly 16) and have never had a boyfriend. It seems like everyone I like just doesn't like me enough to do anything. I'm not really ugly or anything ( def not a model either! ) but I feel like I am just left behind while everyone else isn't. I have to admit that I can be quite shy when it comes to this but lots of my friends are and they still manage to find someone. I know I'm young blah blah but that doesn't make it any less hurtful. I just really don't want to be alone my whole life, and everyone always says to me don't worry it will happen, but noboody knows if that is true. I just have this fear that I will be a spinster my whole life, sounds ridiculous but I just do. You probably think I sound superficial but trust me I am not, I don't want a boyfriend just to have one, I just wish I knew what it felt like to have someone love you and would do anything for you.
    Anyway I probably rambled on there but I'm just feeling a bit lonely, hope you can help me.
    Thanks
  • Feb 7, 2008, 03:16 AM
    imation
    Well when your friends say that it'll happen, they're right, in a few years you'll look at this and laugh about it lol. In the mean time, become more of yourself, be an image of who you want to be not what you think you should be and as soon as you've asserted you individuality, something will spring out of nowhere
  • Feb 7, 2008, 12:32 PM
    daizeebug
    You should just try enjoying life being young, and with bfs comes a lot of drama.. so just try having fun doing what you love to do and definitely someone will notice you. Being confident in who you are and what you love will attract someone who will be worth getting to know.

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