My ex-boyfriend who is like one of my really good friends just killed himself right in my house. And I don't know why. And someone called him when he was about to pull the trigger. He was talking to some one when he died. So my question is how do I know why he did it and who he was talking to...

I am sorry for your loss, If you had the phone or if the police would pass the info, the phone would have it in its receive log, also the phone company or cell provider has the log, police can have them released. Good Luck

I am sorry you had to experience such a thing. Make sure you don't try to get through it alone. You might want to hit up a counselor right away, because I am sure there will be a lot of unanswered questions you will have, but you need to know the healthy ways of coping with them.

If I were you I would honor his wishes of leaving whatever was troubling him and leave it at that. If you delve into phone records then you are going to bring up loads of other questions and it is going to just prolong a lot of pain and suffering. Let him rest in peace.

Again... very sorry for your loss!

In the end, there most likely is not a real reason, he had to have a mental illness or some emotional problem that caused this, In these cases there is no rational reason why anything has happened. I have known several people who killed thierself and there is never really a reason.

We have to not try and justify it, there is no way to do that, we have to learn to deal with the death.