About me and who I would like to meet: conscription
I'm a man who is proud of myself, I respect myself and others I'm aware of who I am and seek no definition form the person I'm with nor do I expect her to read my mind. I'm strong enough to make my dreams come true I know love and I give love I recognize that my love has great value and must be reciprocated. I believe I have a dash of inspiration and a dabble of endurance. I know my past, understand my present and I always move towards my future and I know God and with God the world is my playground but without him I just be played .I'm looking for a good woman as I'm a good man she doesn't have to declare how sensitive, sweet, sincere she is as time will tell she won't degrade me if our opinion's clash, she can admit when she’s wrong. A good woman will not meet every thing on my check list because she’s human with frailties and faults mixed in with her wonderful, strong attributes, she needs my love and respect just as I need her’s. over time we grow and become one... she doesn't have to be flashy or rich or have a great body (but hey I won't be unhappy if she doe's) I'm just looking for my Miss Right you know someone I can be her Mr. Right.

So... you're looking to hook up with a woman at the AskMeHelpDesk discussion board?

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Originally Posted by NeedKarma

So...you're looking to hook up with a woman at the AskMeHelpDesk discussion board?

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He is till learning how to use this board. He only joined today - he is a newbie. Help him out.

Peter Love - this is not a place you can find love but a place where we help people. If you are wanting us to help you figure out where you have gone wrong in the past with relationships? Or how you can make a move a women you may have you eye on - then we can help you.

Peter,you've made your welcome statement.I see from your profile,that you're an IT Recruiter.You will find that a lot of us here,look through Windows,and out onto Linux.Feel free to ask any question.Welcome aboard.

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Originally Posted by Nez

Peter,you've made your welcome statement.I see from your profile,that your an IT Recruiter.You will find that a lot of us here,look through Windows,and out onto Linux.Feel free to ask any question.Welcome aboard.

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Cheers Nez for helping me out there. I am struggling to help Peter understand how this site works.

As you learn to use the board you will find beter sections to ask such things.

And love and finding someone is where you find it. I meeet my wife on line, we were part of a instant message group and she liked my cute name I used back then. ( one never to be mentioned again by the way)

We chatted for a few months and meet and fell in love at first site.

So love can be found almost anywhere.

I may suggest you might find another photo, not complaining, but it looks like a photo of a prisioner in his orange jump suit against a blank white wall in a visiting room. ** Not that it is, but it was the first thing that caught my eye even before I read the post.

Hi Peter and Welcome to the site, I know you will find this site very useful to you. Its wonderful that you know exactly what you want out of a woman and you put it so eloquently, not many peole know what they want.

But I wasn't sure if you were asking a question because you wanted advice? Or you were asking because you were looking for a woman on this site. Just let us know, we do want to help.:D

I know what I would want in woman... BUT, it doesn't work that way at all. My gal is so different, of course he has a lot of qualites and values I need, but she is different and I love her for that.

If your looking for a specific woman or man - you will never find it. People aren't built that way. You need to learn to give and take.

I'd keep an open mind to all woman. Don't ever right off a woman you first meet because she doesn't have things on your list. Give it time.

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Originally Posted by Wildcat21

I know what I would want in woman....BUT, it doesn't work that way at all. My gal is so different, of course he has a lot of qualites and values I need, but she is different and I love her for that.

If your looking for a specific woman or man - you will never find it. People aren't built that way. You need to learn to give and take.

I'd keep an open mind to all woman. Don't ever right off a woman you first meet because she doesn't have things on your list. Give it time.

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Very wise and sensible - I could not agree with you more. It's not just about looking for the right qualities, it's about the connection. When sparks start flying and you click with someone - just as Pete and I did. I just knew. He does not have all the qualities I was dreaming of in a Man, but he is so special and as wildcat said "Different" and that's what I love him for. If the Man I had dreamed about did walk into my life to sweep me off my feet, I would probably have to decline as Pete means so much more to me than some dream ;)

"sparks start flying" - so important. My gals personality is unbelivable. We laugh all the time even after over 1 year of knowing each other.

If I saw her on the street and didn't know her I might not give her a second look.

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Originally Posted by DJ 'H'

Very wise and sensible - I could not agree with you more. It's not just about looking for the right qualities, it's about the connection. When sparks start flying and you click with someone - just as Pete and I did. I just knew. He does not have all the qualities I was dreaming of in a Man, but he is so special and as wildcat said "Different" and thats what I love him for. If the Man I had dreamed about did walk into my life to sweep me off my feet, I would probably have to decline as Pete means so much more to me than some dream ;)

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First of all, I'd just like to say that I'm looking for someone that is, and also, I'll only respond to women who have a picture of themselves displayed. Sorry if that all sounds a bit limiting but I really don't want to waste anyone's time. Now a bit about me. I've been on my own long enough now and whilst I enjoy my freedom and independence it would be nice to have someone I love around. This house is too quiet! I live life in the slow lane - I'm very simplistic. But I'm also impulsive and spontaneous at times. Lavishness and grand gestures, whilst all are very nice, they have never even come close to priority in my life. I like to feel comfortable, safe and secure, and most of all happy. That's all that matters. I'm looking for a gentlewoman, someone who's kind and isn't afraid to display affection at home or in public. My sense of humor is a little zany, but I also love things like Little Britain and Friends TV programs. I don't like nightclubs or anywhere very noisy! I do love and spend lots of time at home, but I also enjoy going to bars, dining out, cinema and theatre. I love the sunshine and hate the cold! Oh there's tons more I could say but let's leave it till you reply!
DJ u naughty naughty NAUGHTY GIRL! You have my email address, mail me, and I do have the same feelings as you have but I could not... you know what.

Peter Love, I am not sure I understand what you are saying or where you are going with your last comments there, but my boyfriend is called Pete and that is who I was referring to. Just thought I would clear that up.

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Originally Posted by DJ 'H'

Very wise and sensible - I could not agree with you more. It's not just about looking for the right qualities, it's about the connection. When sparks start flying and you click with someone - just as Pete and I did. I just knew. He does not have all the qualities I was dreaming of in a Man, but he is so special and as wildcat said "Different" and thats what I love him for. If the Man I had dreamed about did walk into my life to sweep me off my feet, I would probably have to decline as Pete means so much more to me than some dream ;)

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First of all, I'd just like to say that I'm looking for someone that is, and also, I'll only respond to women who have a picture of themselves displayed. Sorry if that all sounds a bit limiting but I really don't want to waste anyone's time. Now a bit about me. I've been on my own long enough now and whilst I enjoy my freedom and independence it would be nice to have someone I love around. This house is too quiet! I live life in the slow lane - I'm very simplistic. But I'm also impulsive and spontaneous at times. Lavishness and grand gestures, whilst all are very nice, they have never even come close to priority in my life. I like to feel comfortable, safe and secure, and most of all happy. That's all that matters. I'm looking for a gentlewoman, someone who's kind and isn't afraid to display affection at home or in public. My sense of humor is a little zany, but I also love things like Little Britain and Friends TV programs. I don't like nightclubs or anywhere very noisy! I do love and spend lots of time at home, but I also enjoy going to bars, dining out, cinema and theatre. I love the sunshine and hate the cold! Oh there's tons more I could say but let's leave it till you reply!
DJ u naughty naughty NAUGHTY GIRL! You have my email address, mail me, and I do have the same feelings as you have but I could not... you know what.

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaah sorry about that girl! I may as well just have to wait... thanks a lot.

Peterlove. Im not sure if this would be the right site to find someone on. Since the whole point of this board is a helping board. Have you tried a dating site? There are suppose to be some good ones out there. Im not saying that you can't be optimistic in finding someone here and it's a great place to meet people. But I'm not sure how responsive woman will be here because of the main objective of being on this board is for people who need advice. But you seem like a nice guy and I wish you luck in love.

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Originally Posted by peter love

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaah sorry about that girl! I may as well just have to wait.....thanks a lot.

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Wait for what?? I don't think you understand. I am with my boyfriend Pete and I hope to be for the rest of my life.

You seem like a nice guy and I sincerely hope you meet a women of your dreams, but I am not that women and this really is not the place to find the women of your dreams.

As Bizygurl said, why not try some online dating agencies, they can help you!

Not only that but, D'JH already has a boyfriend and for you to comment that you'll "just have to wait" seems a bit creepy considering she barely knows you. Why don't you get to know people a little bit better here by answering posts with advice and see what happens but I wouldn't put too many expectations on it. But hen again you never know.

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Originally Posted by bizygurl

Not only that but, D'JH already has a boyfriend and for you to comment that you'll "just have to wait" seems a bit creepy considering she barely knows you. Why don't you get to know people a little bit better here by answering posts with advice and see what happens but I wouldn't put too many expectations on it. But you never know. But I don't know if by joining a board that isn't tailored to dating will really work for you.

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It isn't going to work. People come here for help & advice, not to hook up with people. I would not want to hook up with someone I had never met. I feel really close to one or two people on this site just through talking openly through PM's or on posts, but it does not instantly mean I want to hook up with them and have an online relationship - it just means I trust their knowledge and understanding do regard them as friends on some level. (if that makes sense)

I don't blame you at all for trying to hook-up with some of the ladies on this forum.The only problem is this is an advice forum for asking questions and getting answers.There are other sites for you to find you a female on so welcome and do respect all of us as this is serious to most of us!:cool:

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Originally Posted by talaniman

I don't blame you at all for trying to hook-up with some of the ladies on this forum.The only problem is this is an advice forum for asking questions and getting answers.There are other sites for you to find you a female on so welcome and do respect all of us as this is serious to most of us!:cool:

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I must say that your post was a compliment to us gals here, so thank you very much. :p