The father has not seen them in almost two years. They want nothing to do with him, because the witness him beating me, almost to my death. As they got older they knew what he told them was all lies. I have been with my now husband for 6 years, and we are married now,and they want his last name they are 16 years and 14 years old. Please help us. He does pay child support, but has no contact with them.