I met this guy through my mom.Actually our mothers fixd us up anyway nothing happened at the time because he had a girlfriend. Well I heard he broke up with his
Girlfriend.I only met him once and I really liked him. Actually I haven't had these feelings for a guy in awhile. We only met once. I heard he liked me a lot too. Should I contact him. I'm just scared if he rejects me he might say something to his mom. I don't want this to go around.What should I do?

Go for it girl if you never try you'll never know! ;)

Worst thing we can do is look back on our life and see our mist opportunities

Just off by a friendly chat and maybe a drink out or something fun


Good luck!

What are you more afraid of? Missing a chance with a good guy? What others may say? Me, I would go for it, and see what happens.

Why not?

I wouldn't be scared of what could happen if it ends bad, I'd be more scared of missing something that might be great!

Good luck, hon! :)

No regrets

Agreed to all so far. Why in the world would it matter that people know you contacted a guy and invited him to a movie or dinner or something? Everybody dates, even your mom and his mom dated at some point.

Nobody thinks that's weird at all. Sounds to me like you just want permission, if you're older than 18 you get to make all your own choices. If you're under 18, then his mom is going to be involved most likely anyway, no benefit being afraid of it.

Call him, no harm in that. Worst that can happen is he's not interested and you are in the same position you are now, just acquaintances.

Remember, you're not asking him to be your boyfriend. He has to earn that position with MONTHs of dedication to you. You're just grabbing a meal or a movie.

Relax.

There's nothing wrong to be friends, and if you didn't do anything that no one shouldn't know, what are you afraid of?

If he rejects you and tells his mom, she might knock him upside the head? Who knows... sounds like it's a good idea to call him and see what's going on... as other's have suggested.

Even if it doesn't work, parents understand those things... sounds like they both like the idea especially if both moms already like each other... just be yourself and don't badmouth each other if it doesn't work...

Nothing ventured nothing gained.