Me and this lad wernt meant to do it tonight but I got scared since I am only 13 so I told him no but he kept on trying I said I would do it another night but now he's really weird rnd me he doesn't talk as much when I'm there he just looks at me and the night I told him that I didn't wnt to do it when I had go he was really strange and I don't know why :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused:

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A lad and I were going to do "it" tonight, but I got scared since I am only 13. I told him no, but he kept after me. I said I would do it another night, but now he's really weird around me. He doesn't talk as much when I'm with him, but just looks at me. At that time, I told him I didn't want to do it. When I had to go, he was really strange but I don't know why.

(Pretty good, huh?? It was all those years of translating Latin and also typing guys' term papers in college. It paid off, you see.)

You did the right thing, and he is just feeling a little disappointed. Young guys are like that when they can't get what they want, when they want it. He'll get over it though, so stick to your guns, and keep telling him NO!

Ask him a simple question, "do YOU know the meaning of FATHERHOOD?". That should do the trick for you. Good job.

Darlin, if you don't remember anything from these answers remember this:

No one should ever make you do ANYTHING that you are not comfortable doing. If they do, they are not worth a relationship. No boy should ever ask you to do "it" if you don't want to do "it"... no matter how old you are.

Practice this: "I'm sorry. NO."

If he continues to push you: "I said NO." Get out of the car, leave the movie, whatever, call your Mom or a friend, and get out of there.

You are too precious to let a guy take advantage of you. NEVER do something you're not comfortable doing. Seriously. Do not let any boy (no matter how close he resembles Orlando Bloom) talk you into doing something you don't want to do OR make you feel bad about NOT doing what he wants you to do.

(This goes both ways, of course, when you expect boys to treat you with respect, you are obligated to do the same :) )

This may not work, but it's to add to the whole "Do you know the meaning of fatherhood."

When I was a freshmen in college, all I could think about was getting laid. So I tried. And tried. And tried. Some were success stories, some were not. This one girl, however, really stuck in my head because as one thing led to another, she stopped, looked deep in my eyes, and said, "I really want a child with you. Can we do this without protection?"

... that... DEFINITELY... killed the mood. I'm not sure if she did it to make me stop... or really to have a kid, either way... stopped me in my tracks. Oof.

It sounds like he was only interested in one thing. Be careful with guys like that, they will just hurt you. Sex is not the only thing to a relationship, so if he can't have a normal one with you without sex then it's time to leave him alone and protect your heart.

I can't believe people are offering this girl advice! She can't even write a proper sentence let alone deal with having sex. 13 year olds should be having fun, doing childish stuff that they do and will not be able to do when they grow up. Sex is like a fine wine, it gets better with age and should not be touched until its old enough!!

Honey you should really wait until you are at least ten years older. You are only 13 years old and there is no rush for something like this just enjoy your childhood years. Please trust me on this you don't want to be a single mom at 13 it will be no fun. I had my first at 18 and had to grow up really quickly and it was hard, Just think I was 18 and you are only 13 so just image how much harder it will be for you. And even if you use protection there is still that one percent chance you could still have a baby.

Yes, it does sound like he only wants sex, not intersted in any real relastionship. How old is this boy ?