I'm 13 and I had sex with a friend who is 19 we used a condom but I don't know if it broke. I had my period the weekend right after it.every time I turn on my left side I feel a pain just blow my stomach. I'm tired more,I feel sick but I'm not throwing up am I preganant. It's been 3 weeks

Let's hope you aren't pregnant or he could go to jail.

Unfortunately you now have to wait for your next period.

See if you get your next period. If you don't, you need to go to the doctor and ask for a pregnancy test, or take a home test. Even if you do get it, you should go to the doctor and have your women's health exam. Once you become sexually active, it is very important to get this exam every year. If you think the condom may have broke (plus considering this guy's age, and therefore, possible number of sexual partners), it would be good to get STD testing just to be on the safe side. If you have anything wrong, it is very important to find out early, while it can still be treated successfully.

I think it would be good for you to talk to someone about what you need to do since you are sexually active. You could talk to your doctor, your parents, a school nurse, a youth leader that you know, or even a friend's parent or other trusted adult. It was illegal for this guy to have sex with you. At 19, he is in a totally different point in his life than you are, no offense to you. I would advise you to stay away from him, honey; he needs to be with girls his own age, not 13 year olds.