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  • Feb 2, 2008, 05:48 AM
    shizukamelodi
    I'm going to a sleepover with my crush tonight.
    OK,I think thismught be a good opertunity to see if he likes me.

    What do you think I should do to get him to notice me and make a move?
    I think hima and his mates could be drinking tonight at some point.
    He is turning 16 I am 14.
  • Feb 2, 2008, 05:51 AM
    MOWERMAN2468
    I think you should stay at home.
  • Feb 2, 2008, 05:56 AM
    shizukamelodi
    Why?
  • Feb 2, 2008, 06:42 AM
    danielnoahsmommy
    You are going to get yourself into trouble do as the previous poster said and stay home.
  • Feb 2, 2008, 06:47 AM
    excon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by shizukamelodi
    why?

    Hello shiz:

    You should stay home because you're too young to understand WHY you should stay home.

    Unless, of course, you've already been sleeping with him, and you're already sexually experienced, and you take condoms with you, then you understand perfectly well what's going to happen. It might even be your plan.

    But, if you're not, every adult reading this post KNOWS what's going to happen if you go. The reason you should stay home is because YOU don't know it too.

    excon
  • Feb 2, 2008, 06:48 AM
    terellowens
    Sleepover ? And not party ?
  • Feb 2, 2008, 09:43 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    Let me see, sleep over, drinking and his friends are there.

    Are you on birth control pills, what other methods of birth control.
    And to be honest at 14 having sex with anyone that age is illegal, so not sure what juv law system your nation has, but your 16 year can end up in it, having sex with a 14 year old.
  • Feb 2, 2008, 10:59 AM
    godsbabygirl267
    Don't go, you are tytoo young especially to be going to a sleepover with boys who are drinking and older than you. It would be differeent if you were 8 or 10 but 14 and 16 is too old
  • Feb 2, 2008, 11:03 AM
    J_9
    Have you discussed this with your parents? I'm sure they would say the same things we are.

    STAY HOME!!
  • Feb 2, 2008, 11:15 AM
    talaniman
    I'd be interested in what the parents think of this sleep over, with guys who will be drinking, is about. Obviously your parents don't know either, so they need to be told the truth.

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