Hey guys

just wanted to tell you something that happened to me last week

well as you all know I'm with my girlfriend now happy and doing our own thing,

when I get an email from my X. saying hi how are you. We split up like 8 months ago

I of course didn't respond but it made me laugh.

The best thing about N.C is if your X tries to contact you. Its her coming back even when you told her you wanted nothing to do with the cheating bint. I don't care what her reasons are what don't people get about I want you out of my life


but
even if they don't contact you or do
its still so awesome to do No contact. Because you take back control. And you make your own time table. Not waiting on the other person to come round or anything
but its sure great to when they do :) Smug city

It makes you Strong and not feel like a fool

so the moral of the story is. Its great to do N.C :)

because when days like this come round it really makes you clad you didn't do any of the begging crap.


anyway just thought this would help some people. That think if they contact people it will bring them back. Normaly it doesn't and although no contact probable won't bring them back either. It just makes you feel so much better at the end of the day :)

:)

Thank you so much for checking in and spreading the warmth. I guess NC starts really slow and begins to build momentum, almost imperceptively. Stay close by as we have several in the infirmary now.

That is all so true! I know exactly what you mean about how some people don't get it when you tell them to stay out of your life. I went through that with my ex, and ignoring him was the best thing I ever did.

Kudos Truefaith, you speak the truth :)